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low libido


Question Posted Tuesday January 19 2010, 6:21 pm

i've been with my boyfriend for a year now. we are deeply inlove, but we have a problem. he has a way stronger sex drive then i do which causes fights and tension. he has agreed to calm down with his as long as i improve mine. i have no idea how to do this. i heard certain scents might work and to just relax before hand. i'm sexually attracted to him and when i do get in the mood i think about him. we both have rough work schedules so we don't see eachother as much as we would like but when we do see eachother, i want to make it as special as possible. so any tips on how to get into the mood more often would be great lol thanks!

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PunkieFreak4690 answered Thursday January 28 2010, 3:45 pm:
Men have a higher libido than women do, it's a proven fact. If your man can't accept that your libido may be a bit lower than his, then it's not much worth it. Testosterone would be the one at fault. Since men have more of it than women, a higher sex drive will be in affect.

But yes, some scents may help, and herbal supplements like Ginseng may help too. Try to put on some soothing music to help you get in the mood.

But he really should be patient with you when you two are having a romantic moment together. I would also suggest try finding ways to reduce your stress level so you can relax a bit more to prepare yourself for a sexual moment.

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