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Guys are complicated; what to say?
I've needed a guy point of view on this for a while! How would you react if a girl told you that she's breaking up with you; not because of something you did, but because she isn't really ready for a steady, committed relationship? Please help me out(:
(and if you could, give a better way to say it)
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Well I think most of it depends on how the guy feels about the relationship.
If I really liked the girl, I would be crushed no matter how she said it. But if she was just someone who I had alot of fun with but didnt necessarily feel like I was going to be with forever, then I would probably just be a little bummed but take on a more of "eh, thats life" attitude towards the break up.
I think you should be thoughtful about it no matter how he feels about the relationship. guys might pretend to be all tough but they all have hearts. let his down easy.
umm you could try just maybe start out by telling him that you like him and tell him some of his qualities you admire (nothing too superficial). then just let him know that you just dont think you are ready for a serious relationship and that theres nothing he did that made you want to break up with him, you just arent at the right point in your life for getting serious about anything.
talk to him as a friend. dont get angry and if he does, dont get angry back. just let him be angry and absorb anything he says. be and act sorry about it (if you are).
I hoped this helped.
ask if you need clarification or anything else.
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