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Sex/Orgasms


Question Posted Wednesday September 30 2009, 10:45 pm

Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for a couple weeks. I love it and it feels absolutely amazing but I can never orgasm or even get close to orgasm. It is generally pretty difficult for me to have an orgasm, especially with another person, so I'm not surprised in that - but sex feels better than anything I've ever done, and I still can't get close!

Are there any tips anyone can give me for having an orgasm? I feel like it's my insecurity issues, maybe, or something like that, but I want to be able to let go and make it easier for myself to have an orgasm. Thanks for any help.

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MissGilmour answered Thursday October 1 2009, 9:09 am:
Yea i am the same as you chic, do you play with urself when he is inserted?? it helps bring your orgasm on too, but i found with time i felt more confident with my man and then started to tell him what felt good and what didnt, dont b afraid to talk about it, its healthy n can bring u closer, its better all round for you and him, because he will feel better too. then u both can experiment with different styles thats the fun part.lol

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PunkieFreak4690 answered Wednesday September 30 2009, 11:42 pm:
It's harder for a female to orgasm because the clitoris isn't being fully stimulated.. that's why.

I would try to make closer skin to skin contact and spread your legs more to get more stimulation. Or have you or your boyfriend use his/your fingers to stimulate it as you're doing it.

That could help.

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