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kind of confused
im a 16/f and i recently lost my virginity to an 18/m. we arent going out but he claims that were friends with benefits. he doesnt like me in that way and he doesnt want a relationship. we arent even friends, im kind of just his booty call. im also hooking up with a 16/m, but he likes me. i dont like him that much. each guy doesnt know that im hooking up with both of them, and the 18/m told me he really wouldnt care if i liked someone else but he said he would probobly care if i was doing stuff with other guys. why do you think he would care if he doesnt even like me? he said that he just would. but i want to know why.
and does this make me a slut..be honest.
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okay....i'm not you, but sounds like you need to avoid this guy who just wants to be friends with benefits. I say its bad news. you need to leave both of them and start all over girl. you're putting yourself into a big mess sweetheart. believe me if you continue to be his booty call while you're dating some other guy that likes you you're life is gonna turn into a living hell. I'm sorry to dissapoint you, but you're putting yourself into a very bad situation. You're friend with benefits doesn't care, he just wants to be the only one to get some from you and that's not good. If you're going to be doing these things it's very wrong, and I don't personally like calling people sluts or anything, but yes that would make you one. get rid of both of the guys an find some friends to enjoy your life with. at 16 you shouldn't being having sex, but that's just my opinion. If you want to i can pray with you, cause when you get older and marry the man you love it's gonna probably hurt him that you had sex before marriage. Everybody makes mistakes, and that's okay cause nobodies perfect. you are an amazing girl and God loves you and i love you through christ. Have a wonderful day and i hope i helped you.
Your friend, lulabell aka lul
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