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i did something stupid.


Question Posted Friday August 28 2009, 7:03 am

16/f
okay so there is this guy, lets name him frank. frank is 18 and just graduated from my school now there is other guy, lets name him sam. sam is my age and goes to my school. i met frank in june before i knew sam. frank and i did stuff even though he is kind of an asshole and treats me like a toy. but he was my first so i kind of cant let him go. i met sam in july. we started hooking up before frank and i did stuff. while sam was in jamacia, frank and i had sex. frank doesnt know that sam and i are hooking up but he does know that sam and i are friends. hes asked me before if were hooking up and i lied and said no. but frank seems like kind of a player so i assume hes hooking up with other girls anyway..not like he would ever admit to that.

so frank is a vouleneet firefighter in the same area that sam lives. sam is signing up to be a voulenteer firefighter. im so so nervous that afraid that frank is gonna notice there is someone new and he will go upto him and introduce himself. then frank will think for a second and remember that he knows that i know who sam is. so he'll ask sam if he knows me. and sam will say yeah. do you think frank is gonna ask if were hooking up? i really dont know but if he does, then i am SCREWED. frank is gonna kill me if he found that out. and then he would tell sam that me and him had sex and sam will be shocked and probobly go tell everyone and hate me and then everyone will think im a whore. people dont know me like that. i seem like the nice shy innocent girl. FUCK MY LIFE.

im really hoping that i can say to sam, please dont tell anyone that were hooking up. i just really dont want anyone to know because at school people are gonna be really annoying about it. and if anyone asks you, please do me a huge favor and tell them that were just friends. because i would hate to find out that you told someone. please dont break that trust. if you do then i cant talk to you anymore. [he would listen because hes like so attatched to me]

what do you think i should do without getting caught. please help me i dont know why i did that and yes i know its horrible and i feel like shit but please tell me if you think thats a good idea or tell me what i can do to prevent anything bad and them finding out


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Matt answered Friday August 28 2009, 4:35 pm:
I don't know why you keep asking me for advice, considering it's always short and poor.


Anyway, yea that sounds like a good idea. You should break up with Frank too. After all, his pseudo name is Frank... not a good sign.

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