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my relationship with my girlfriend
i wrote to you earlier today about my troubles im 17 and im a male and ive lost trust in my girlfriend we have been together for 2 years she cheated on me in an early point of our relationship when she cheated our relationship was fine no arguments we were okay but as i said i happened along time ago i forgave her it doesnt bother me any more im an understanding person after the initial shock i was ok but recently she went on a trip with her friends i was ok with it but while she was gone i realized i dont trust her i dont think she would cheat on me i just get that filling in my stomach and then i think what if i mean i know she loves me and she knows i love her but if i fill like that when she goes away it could become a problem for both of us i just need to know if you have some advice on how to get my trust in her back
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There isn't a sure shot remedy for this... What I think is you should just try and talk to her about it.. Its only when she assures you that she is never gonna do it again will you ever be at peace... But dont just storm at her... When you two are alone, tell her that you love her more than anything else and that your priority in life is her happiness. Then tell her that you feel really uneasy when she goes away coz you think you might lose her again the way you lost her when she dwindled in the relationship previously (don't use words like cheated and trust)... Then tell her never to leave you ever again... And say mushy stuff like that. Trust me, its all gonna get sorted.
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