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I need advise
Male 31 yrs.
About 5 years ago I meet a girl with whom I fell in love as soon as I laid eyes on her, we talked for a while that day, but after, did not see each other for a while. A couple months after I saw her again, but then I come to find out that she was married, so I gave it up. We ran into each other from time to time, I even met her husband and so on. Time went by and we lost contact had not seen her for almost 2 years now. A little over a month and a half ago, she came into my life, she added me as a friend on myspace. We started talking, and for what she told it seemed she had been looking for me. She also has a little beautiful girl whom i now love. Anyway, she's divorced now and has been dating for almost a year now. We are now BF and GF, but I'm not quite sure about her, at the beginning everything was nice just like any new relationship. As I get to know her more; she has a temper I can't joke with her about anything cos she gets mad, she doesn't value me very much either, she judges people on the street, guys are always calling her cell when she's with me, at a party I asked her to dance she said no but then her boss came to asked her to dance and she went right out, she's tried to break up with me twice already but the next day she's ok, sometimes I try to kiss her and she says I don't let her breath so I back up, but yet she makes plans about the future with me, she's always listening to love songs about ex relationships and so on. I don't know what to do, I love her and she knows it, but I can't go on with it anymore, yet I can't get her out of my head. i feel like she's using me.. please help.
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I'm so sorry that I couldn't have answered sooner. I definitely think you should stop and move on. You're only 31! You have so much left ahead of you and if she's tried breaking up with you in the past and is not 100% into the relationship, it will just hurt both of you more in the future. I think you should try to go out and meet other women because I'm sure you're a very attractive young man and lots of women would love to date you and give you a chance. Don't give up hope. You can get over her. She isn't worth it if she treats you as she does and her emotions are so out of whack. You don't have forever so make sure you wake up everyday and are happy and do something productive to reach your goals. Best of luck and thank you for inboxing me.
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