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His Exgirlfriend
My names Tay, I am 16 and I have been dating my boyfriend for 8 months. We never really had a problem till about 3 months ago. I had this friend, Nathan, and we were like bestfriends for a year. We rarley hang out, we only talk, were like each others emotional support. But my boyfriend didnt like that, and he wanted me to stop talking to him. I put up a fight, but I gave in. Nathan and I got into a fight as well, so it's not a big deal that my boyfriend, Allen, doesn't want me to talk to him.
But his exgirlfriend and him were messaging eachother on myspace. I don't like her, I'm just afraid I'll lose him to her. So I don't want him talking to her. But he continues too. Yesterday she gave him, her number and they have been texting each other, I told him to stop, and we got into a fight, mind you, yesterday was our 8 months together and we mainly fought. But during our fight he said he doesnt need my permisssion and blah blah blah.
First, it's not fair to me to have me stop talking to my ex (me and nathan dated for like a month)but when i ask him to stop talking to his, he wont. Second, it hurts me that he talks to her. I don't think he realizes that.
To top it off, a mutual friend of ours texted me and said that shes starting to like him. I don't believe everything he says, because he doesnt always tell the truth.
Thanks,
Tay
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Hey Tay.
Thanks for inboxing me.
Basically the best advice I can give you is for you two to stop being so jealous of each other's friends!
He got jealous of you and your ex talking, and you were upset about that.
You are getting jealous of him and his ex talking, but it's not right for him to be upset?
You can't have it both ways.
I think you need to talk to him and tell him that both of your jealousies need to stop, because it's tearing you two apart. If you can agree to stop being jealous of who talks to who, then maybe you can move on and forget how immature you both are being.
After all, if he's going to leave you for his ex, then it wasn't meant to be anyway.
--Jack
(17/m)
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