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Thanks I really aprciate your advice and opinions, its sort of comforting in a way to know that theres someone who completely gets it and understands.
Yeah dave said the exact same thing about the alchol breeding honesty,and how he has lost alot of respect for him for thinking like that,he also said he thinks he just wants to say he was with someone who wasnt easy.
hes going to talk to him(dean is his name btw i never mentioned) next time he sees him about the whole thing in a discrete way to see what he really is after, I told him not to make it obvious that I know hes doing it though if you get me have you any ideas on how he should go about it or what he should say?
I actually never thought about the whole premeditated friends thing..makes perfect sense now!
Im still in shock about all this really because not so long ago we were talking on MSN and he asked me was I still a virgin..and I said yep and proud he said thats good me too and he started going on about how im not like other skanks and stuff.
but then his attitude completetly changes,dave told me that he said to him that he wasnt a virgin,but he didnt know to believe him or not because some guys just lie about that to seem cool or whatever.
I feel kinda hurt and used in a way and I dont know why I keep wishing he wasnt like this,and making excuses for his behaviour..(having said that I know definately not to let my gaurd down)
I let myself get too excited I think because i thought he was different you know? the last guy I was with was the same now I feel stuck in a rut really like im never gonna find someone decent?
dave and my sister were saying how they cant understand why i have such bad luck with guys because apperntly im pretty kind caring fun etc(which i dont believe at all..)
that made me feel like there must be something wrong with me and that if im all that I wouldnt keep attracting the wrong ones.
Theres also the issure of the wedding..i was thinking I shouldnt go because i dont want to give him the satisfaction,dave said I should go with him and our other friend who was invited and make sure i look really good and just turn him down again..but im not sure..what do you think?
Thanks,cant say its easy but i try haha =]
thanks a million again for taking the time to read and respond to all this :)
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I think Dave should try to be really up front with Dean. If he's like, "Yo, what do you really want with (insert your name here)?" Dean will definitely not think that you put him up to it. He would think Dave was just watching out and being protective of you. He doesn't have to be super aggressive, but just throwing it out there is probably the best method.
Yeah, guys are so confusing and it's hard to find good ones. But you're not cursed or anything. Every girl I know has the same problem as you. The two guys I dated before my current boyfriend were total jerks. I was glad when they buggered off. You just have to meet new people. Eventually, you'll find a great guy that appreciates who you are.
You should probably still go to the wedding since you said you would already. Wait to see what Dave finds out when he talks to him though. If he answers with something mean or is a jerk, just don't go with him and don't say why.
It's hard to get over people, but if you give yourself time, you'll meet a great person and you'll totally forget about the others.
Darby(:
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