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Same thing as everyone else- Boy problems. LONG story.
15/ Female
My crush Kyle S (14-15) & I are friends of 2 years, he made it very clear to me last December that he didn't want me his exsact words were: "I don't like you that way, I'm sorry. I'm not ready for a girlfriend, I only wanna be friends." It was pretty hard on me, but kinda of exspected I'm not skinny at all- so I felt it was gonna be like that. Around Febuary though he just became so... Polite! A true gentleman. Everyone says we'd make a cute couple. Just last month he told me "I like a LOT of girls here." we were at are usally spot the bowling alley when he said that he also told me he 'liked' my semi-close friend Lidia (13). I've been told he's a player... I think he went a little over board (at prom) a few days ago. I asked him if we could go as friends he said yes- then asked Lidia the day after I asked him! Of course, her not knowing I asked said yes. The danced togther almost every slow dance- my friend Sara (12-13) even sabatoshed me! She told Lidia I would kill her for saying yes- which is SO untrue, I hate violence! Sara always implies I need to shut the hell up when he's brought up "You can't controll who people like, or if people like them back." Lidia hates the thought of even hugging him! I don't know what to do- a bonus my close friend Seth (17-18) I think might just 'like' me... Intristing thing is the same day I asked Kyle S to prom- I was going to hang with Seth while on the way there I ran into his oldest of his younger siblings Kyle H (13) and his buddy said as I was walking by "Kyle 'likes' you." I decide since I was tried & fustrated anyway to hit on the head with my so called 'two-ton brick'- Seth said he was just joking around. But I don't know, Kyle H won't say anything when people call him gay (which 99% of those people is me [Seth has 4 brothers, 3 sisters]). I think I might be over Kyle S but I can't stop thinking about him- Seth will oddly enough listen to me... What should I do about all of this mess? -Kaori
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Kyle S sounds like a total jerk. Similarly, Sara sounds like no friend at all. A good friend wouldn't try to start problems or expect you not to talk about boy troubles. I would drop these two people out of my life in a heartbeat, if I were you. They don't sound like good friends at all.
Unfortunately, Kyle S just doesn't like you like that. It's been made very clear. He's a total jerk for asking Lidia to prom after he already said yes to you. That's just one more reason for you to move on. You deserve and can find better.
I don't know if you're implying that you like Kyle H or what. You made a point to say that Kyle H's friend said that Kyle H liked you. That makes me think that you might like him too. I can't see any other reason that you would mention it. But you also say that Seth listens to you at the end.
My advice to you would be as follows: Get away from Kyle S and Sara. They're no good. Summer break is the perfect time to distance yourself from people without making it bluntly obvious. Just stop calling/texting/hanging out with them gradually. They'll get the point and by the time school starts again in the fall, they'll be far enough away to not bother you. By not calling/texting/seeing Kyle S, you'll make it a lot easier on yourself to get over him, too.
As far as Seth and his little brother go. It depends if you like Seth's little brother. They're both 2 years different in age from you. I think Seth is looking good right now. He's the one that listens to you. He sounds like he's fairly sweet and you mentioned that you think he may like you. If you like him too, I say go for it.
Darby(:
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