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Well i dated this guy for 3 months and really really liked him. We were like two peas in a pod and everything. He was sweet, funny, caring and basically everything i wanted in a guy. There was a problem though. He wouldn't stop lying to me about things. He kept things from me and lied a lot. But he never was mean other than that. I finally broke up with him about a week and a half ago and we decided to just be friends. But all he is is drama and i cant get away from it. He started calling me names and saying he dosen't care about me because he was mad i wouldn't take him back. So then i stopped being his friend. But for some reason i still have a lot of feelings for him. I know that i shouldn't because he lied and everything but i do. I loved him. I know people are like "Your 15 and you dont know what love is." Well i have never had a broken heart until now and i was the one that broke up with him. He constantly makes me mad but at the same time i want to be his girlfriend and be with him again. The sad part is, i know i will never be with him again because he lied to much. I wanted to be friends with him so much but he screwd that up to. And after all this time i still like him. I don't know what to do. And i don't get it either. He said i was the first girl he loved and he acted that way to. He was so so sweet. But now, he is starting to move on and i know i need to be doing that to but it is killing me! He flirts with girls already and i can't even stop thinking about him. Please help someone and explain to me what to do! thanks!
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Well, you both kind of screwed things up. You knew he was lieing, right? You should have talked to him about it and worked on it together instead of giving up in the snap of fingers. Love is a very strong feeling, and is not what it is in movies. It isn't this passionate fight fest, its a bond.
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You guys haven't even been broken up a week. It's okay to feel the way you do. You can't just snap your fingers and be over him. Don't put so much pressure on yourself to move on so quickly.
When you care about someone, it's hard to just forget about them. If if they are a jerk or they do lie. But the fact that he is already flirting with guys just goes to show you that he doesn't really care about you as much as he led on.
Give yourself a chance to get over him. You don't have to immediately throw yourself back out there. Take a couple weeks to just hang out with your friends. Luckily, you're coming to the end of the school year so you won't have to see him there Monday through Friday. Just have a couple sleepovers with your friends and try to stay clear of him. You've done everything you can do. You've been nice to him and tried to stay friends.
Once he's done being angry, he'll understand and try to be friends with you again. As for now, just hang with your girl friends and try not to call/text/call him.
Darby(:
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