okay this is gonna sound soo embrassing!
well my and my fella have been togther for over4 and abit months.. and were teenagers..
a couple of days ago he fingered me.. and my days it felt gooooooooodd!
but he wants me to give him a hand job... how do i do that ?
I cant imagine myself doing that! do you think i can do anything else to him .. or he do anything to me, so i can get out of it? .. or shall i go for it?
If you think i should go for it .. how do i like.. get in the moment, and do my stuff?? =]
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Darby answered Monday May 11 2009, 6:20 pm: You'll eventually have to just go for it. I don't know if you're just nervous or scared that you're not going to do it right, but it's not difficult at all. Just put your hand around it, not too tightly and not too loosely. Then move your hand up and down, it's very repetitive and gets boring quickly. You'll know that you're doing something right (or wrong) by his reaction. But don't worry, you'll only have to do it for a couple minutes before you get the hang of it.
Also, of course, if you're not comfortable or don't feel ready to do it, don't. Just tell your boyfriend that you're not ready to do that quite yet. If he's a good boyfriend and is serious about you, he'll wait.
But I think it sounds like you're just a tad bit nervous, which is completely normal.
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