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Can't break his heart..
So I'll try to make a long story short.
Im 15. I dated this guy whos two years older than me for a year, and before we dated he always asked me if I was ready for commitment. & I thought I was. So Im 15, and I still wanna go out with my friends party and do what most teenagers do but most of my friends I party with are guys and even though I take girlfriends with me and promise on everything I wouldn't do anything, he still "can't trust me" which, I can understand because i've lied to him a lot in the past. So finally I got fed up, he got on my myspace all the time. When we would hang out he would look through my phone's text messages and if I deleted them, he would flip out saying how im "hiding stuff from him". So i broke it off.
It's been seven months.
I have a new boyfriend, I thought maybe
that would help me get over him. But,
I was wrong. very wrong. I can't sleep
because I think of this kid so much.
My boyfriend now is great.
but no guy is ever gonna replace him.
what do I do?
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First of all, you need to break up with the boyfriend you have now. It isn't fair to him if he's trying to have a relationship with you and you're sitting around thinking about your ex instead.
I don't think you should go back to your ex either. He sounds a little controlling if he's going through your text messages and checking your MySpace.
If you want my honest opinion, it is that I think you should just continue to go ahead and go out with your friends like you would like to do. Hang out with your friends and don't try to get into a relationship until you are completely over your ex. It's okay to casually date a few guys, but you shouldn't get into an exclusive relationship. You're 15. Go have fun for right now. Let relationships come naturally and don't try to go out and find one. If you don't want to hurt the boyfriend you have now, let him down gently. You could keep seeing him and hanging out, but try telling him you're not ready for a relationship and that you don't want to be his exclusive girlfriend.
I hope this helps.
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