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hormones
last year I was on birth control and I was...insane...then I went off of it and I became sane again...now I am pregnant and back to insane...
I have been really hasseling my husband about thinking he is cheating on me even though there is no evidence. Tonight he got sick of it and he's mad at me. He is so good to me and I don't know how to stop from accusing him. I know he isn't doing it so why do I keep bringing it up?
Has this happened to anyone who has been prego or even just on birth control? I would like to hear if you have any suggestions to get through it. I am due in one and a half months so I just need to get through it for that long. Help me keep my family together please!
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Boy, do you ever have your title right HORMONES. They can make you feel like you're going crazy, but relax, you're not crazy. Right now, you are going through the insecure period of pregnancy. You have gained weight and you believe you are no longer attractive to your man. Right? This is so normal. If you are positive he is not cheating on you, you really have to give him your confidence. Keep telling your hormones to get lost and trust your boyfriend. Tell him how you feel, it is very important for him to know where you're coming from. Take deep, long breaths in through the nose and out through the mouth if you think you are about to say something to him that will harm your relationship. Pregnancy should be a good time
in your life but you're insecurities have taken over. Take back your life and enjoy your pregnancy. Go for nice long walks with your boyfriend. This will help in the delivery of the baby. Cuddle together every chance you get. The heat from his body will relax yours. Talk about the things you both enjoy. Talk about the baby and start making plans for his welcoming home.
When you do feel insecure, tell yourself it's not him but you're hormones talking. Listen to upbeat music that makes you want to dance. DON'T listen to sad music that sing about heartache and breakups, this will only get you down even more.
Hang in there girl, it will soon pass. You will have your beautiful little baby in your arms and your hormones should go back to normal. However, after the childbirth (after about 6 months) if you still feel this way, talk to your family doctor. He will take blood tests and check your hormone levels for you. If they are still out of wack, he'll help you with that. Congratulations and good luck to both of you.
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Well being pregnant has lots of confusing hormones. When my sister was pregnant she used to flip out over everything. It just goes along with the pregnancy! And the birth control has to do with the same thing. Its all just the hormones =). Everything will be gwed when you get farther along in your pregnacy and of course after you have your baby. All is confusing right now because your scared. Everybody gets scared during a pregnacy. Its all just natural. =)
Dont worry too much and dont put too much stress on your self and the baby. It could cause some damage. So be careful and rellax!
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