Question Posted Tuesday February 10 2009, 10:03 pm
14/f
So there is this guy I just started noticing. Not actually liking him yet, like I don't get butterflies or anything. We talk sometimes but I want to be his friend. Its just little things about him teasing me or something along those lines. How do I become his friend? Because for one thing I only have a couple of classes with him but I'm usually with my friends, I have to get up and walk past him for him to say something to me. He is on my bus but I'm with my friend and he doesn't talk to me then. I should get the courage to talk to him but if I did I wouldn't be able to have some conversation since its on the bus and I sit with my friend and he sits with his. He has introduced me to one of his friends before. I never talked to them though. The only time he ever does talk to me on the bus is when my friend isn't there that day. What should I do? I can't really talk to him during class either. I'm kinda shy so it will be hard for me to even start a conversation if I even had the chance. Thanks so much!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? InsaneChildz answered Wednesday February 11 2009, 8:28 pm: Well it seems that your both kinda shy and it seems he might be interested in being friends too, but he wants to talk to you alone not when your with your friends or hes with his. So my suggestion is that during school as you pass him just say a quick hi, or hey and on the bus try to be alone more often then always with your friends. Try to sit a little closer too so when his friends get off you two could talk. You might not like it, but you might need to start the conversation, I know it can be hard but if you want to become friends you need to take the initiative .
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