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Confused
Ok I wanted to ask you a question because I'm hoping you can give me a good answer. I'm 14/f and this might be long so I'm sorry about that. I liked this guy and like 2 weeks later I found out he liked me by my friend. So it was pretty obvious after that. He did ask me out. So we were going out, I think. Its confusing lol. We sat by each other and stuff. My friend hates him now for no reason. She said he was annoying or whatever. But that's not the problem. She passed me a note asking me if I liked him. I said yeah and why. She said because he flirts with these 2 other girls at school. (I don't go to his school) And him and his friend started passing notes, so I was like ok whatever. Later his friend asked me what my friend said to me. I said nothing. He said that the guy I liked thought she was trying to get me to stop hanging out with him. Then he asked if I liked him. So I said I don't know. Then he said well he doesn't really like you either. I was like ok...Then his other friend keeps bringing him up like, "have you given him your number?" And stuff like that. I think I should ask him whats going on because some other friends say that he never even talks to those girls that my friend says he flirting with. I think she could be lying but idk. I'm shy not really like never talk shy but its hard for me to talk to him about stuff like that. So what should I do? Thanks so much!
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I can see your tricky situation, and as I was reading about it, I realized that there are WAY too many people involved in your relationship with this kid. I know it can be confusing, getting information from lots of people at once, which is why you should form your own opinion for now, and not listen to what anyone else says. I was like you, very outgoing but I was very embarassed in a way to talk to my bf about that sort of thing too. But it has to happen. To start off, you need to set up a date and time that you can hang out with him, and have a serious talk, just with you two. You need to tell him that there are wayyy too many rumors going around and too many people involved, you should ask him some personal questions too. I think right now it needs to be all about communication between the two of you directly, not from his or your friends. Its like playing telephone, (if you have ever played) when word gets to one person to another things start to get twisted.
As for your friend who thinks he is annoying, you need to re-assure her that your relationship will not interfere with your friendship, and you guys will spend plenty of best friend time too. But she also needs to understand that he is your boyfriend, and she needs to be willing to accept that at times. If things work out with you and that boy, she may come around, just give it some time.
Please let me know how this works out for you, I really want to help you! And thanks for the inbox :-) have a happy holiday, if you have anything else or any questions, you can always feel free to inbox me anytime. :-)
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