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should i breakup or makeup?
Hey Alex,
so lets start by me telling you the precurrsing actions leading to this question. First I have a boy friend and a girl friend, dont take this offencivly but i cant deside what sex. anyway, the boyfriend recently cheated on me and we got into a fight. This is hard because the girl friend is not so much as i am looking for. I want to make up with him, but how.? I know the holidays are aproching and i want that to be the perfect time to make up. I am also thinking of just taking the only one date do you have advice on which to choose?
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First off, I don't find it offensive if you don't know which sex you like. Next, I would tell you that you pretty much answered yourself in your question. You said that you aren't really looking for a girlfriend, so that should tell you something. And you seem to really want to make up with your boyfriend, so you should at least talk to him about what happened. When you do this, you have to be calm or it will just turn into a bigger fight. Ask him yourself what happened so you can know the truth, and see if he apologizes for it. If he does, decide whether or not you think he really means it or if he's just saying it. If he means it, then you should talk to him about getting back together. If it seems fake, then you can decide what to do from there. And you're right, the holidays are a good time to make-up. Maybe you can buy him a little gift or something to ease the tension a little. Hope that helps.
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