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ignoring me
okayy
so there's this guy
and me and him were good friends
and we had this thing going on
and everyone started someing up to us and asking us if we were going out
and we'd be like noo
but now he seems like he's ignoring me
and i don't know why
i see him looking over at me a few times
from the corner of his eye
but idk
he still talks to me too
i know he used to like me
but idk about now
i think he does still
but he's sending mixed signals
today he was flirting with this girl right in front of me
and he never really flirts with her
soo i was wondering if he likes me and that's why he's avoiding me
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He is definitely sending some mixed signals here. Maybe he likes you, or maybe he doesn`t and he`s worried about ruining your friendship - it`s hard to tell sometimes. If he is flirting with a girl infront of you he could be trying to make you jealous. If he has been acting this way for more than a week or two, you could casually ask him if something is wrong but he may not tell you the truth.
If you`d like, you could try being really friendly by inviting him to hang out with you (just the two of you, if that`s possible). If he used to like you (or still does) he would be more likely to be clear about it when it`s just the two of you.
When a guy starts sending mixed signals like that it can be really confusing. You should avoid sending mixed signals yourself by being friendly and flirty but not over the top. When you two hang out, gently brush against him (ie, your arm against his) and look directly into his eyes when you smile, then look away, then look back. Subtle clues like that will show him that you`re interested. Maybe he is just nervous and doesn`t intend to seem like he is avoiding you.
Good luck, just be remember to avoid sending mixed signals back, but don`t be too forward right away. If you feel like things are improving, you can tell him you like him as more than a friend. If you have anymore questions, feel free to ask me! :)
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