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what should i do? hi i'm 16 and a girl, and you seem like you give some good advice.. so here it goessss...
i wanted to have sex with my boyfriend really bad, but he didn't really want to. well, we were at this party [and i'm not the type to get drunk or anything like that, i just don't do that.. i'm not a whore either..] anyway, i go to parties that have drinking, i just don't drink, and some one 'fixed' my drink, and i got really really drunk. i ended up having sex with 4 different guys. and now my boyfriend wont talk to me, and its not my fault. what should i do??
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Well i can see why he would be mad.
Some reasons he might be mad are
:He could be mad at you because he wanted to be your first (if your a virgin)
Or
:He might not know that it was an accident and that he could think you did it purposefully.
Or
:he could be mad at the fact that you put yourself in that position
Or
:He could be mad bescause just the fact that it was 4 guys. (that's fucking a lot)
Or
:He could be really hurt that you did that, despite the fact the your drink was "fixed"
Idk if hes mad because any of these reasons or all of them, but hes definitely mad.
I suggest that you try to talk to him. If he keeps ignoring you just keep being persistent until you talk to him and explain everything.
And if he refuses to forgive you then i suggest you move on to someone else.
P.S. I would highly suggest taking a pregnancy test, and also go to a free clinic and get tested for any STD's
Hope it helped
15/m
~InsaneChildz~ ]
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