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what should i do about this girl im dating
i wanted to know what i should do about this girl i have been seeing for about 6 months, we've known each other for 5 years we both know each other ins and outs. i have never felt this way for anyone in my life, shes perfect. every time i see her its like the first time every time, my stomach gets in knots and i get light headed when she smiles at me. i think about her 24/7.we like the same things. we dont do drugs nor do we drink, our ideal nite is staying home and watching a movie instead of partying. i love her with all my heart. but my real question is should i stay with her or not? i forgot to mention that she has 2 kids by my brother and they broke up about 7 months ago and he still loves her. he doesnt know we are together. she left him because of his drug and drinking problem, which was bad. what should i do?
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Wow. This is a heavy situation to be in. First of all, if you want to make this a serious relationship you have to let your brother know eventually, no relationship can grow if it is kept a secret. Secondly, it will ruin your brother's trust and he probably will be crushed. You would have to decide whether your brother or your girlfriend means more to you. A third problem is the kids. First off, morally, is it right to be with the mother of your nieces and nephews? Secondly, what will you tell the kids when they are older. It's a very odd situation and probably not a good one to be in. Also, if you have been together for 6 months and they broke up 7 months ago don't you think that is a little quick, considering they have children together... I would be careful with that...
In the end it comes down to this. If you stay with her, A LOT of terrible consequences will come from it. You might get some good out of the relationship too but it will not be easy.
You have to decide if it's worth it. I can't tell you straight up yes or no if you should break up with her, because you could never exactly explain the intensity of your feelings.
Remember, there are PLENTY of other people in the world for you to fall in love with, It's a sticky situation and probably not the best one to be in, so I would be careful with your decision.
Girls come and go most of the time, but family will ALWAYS be there, so don't betray your brother.
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