Question Posted Saturday September 6 2008, 9:48 pm
15/f
ok so recently in the summer ive hung out with more guys and got more guy friends and all but ive never had a boyfriend .. and when school started i started sharing a locker with my friend brandon because my locker is too far away from my classes .. and i dont know he shows signs that he likes me i think because he invited me to his end of the summer party and he kept telling me how much his parents liked me and all and we have very long texting conversations alot .. i just dont know really how to tell if he really does like me and also he is friends with my friend dan and he tells me that he thinks dan likes me and im like well he doesnt show it .. because at the end of the summer party dan bearly talked to me and brandon said that he was all over me and i didnt think so .. so i really am confused and i dont know if brandon or dan likes me or both and i dont know what to do so if you have any advice since your a guy i would appreciate it thanks!
Here are a few ways guys show they like you from a list I've used before:
1. They don't call you "sexy". They call you "beautiful", "gorgeous", "amazing", etc.
2. They make an effort to hug you. They might high-5 instead, but it really depends on the guy in question.
3. They DO find any reason to touch you in some way. Mostly it ISN'T in a sexual way. Its more of just an excuse to remember what you feel like, I guess. Its hard to explain...
4. He is always smiling around you. If you're feeling bad and he's around- he'll be smiling because he knows that he's there to help you- and that's like brownie points for a guy if they can help a girl out. That, like the above, is hard to explain.
5. He'll tell you things about himself that he normally wouldn't tell everyone. He opens up to you. Guys don't get a chance to do that when pressured to "be manly".
6. If you have a feeling that a guy likes you- you're probably right. Guys aren't the best at hiding it- and girls are even better at figuring these type of things out.
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