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is this how its going to be forever
so i had an interesting conversation with someone i know today. we were talking about relationships. it feels like im always screwing things up. even if i didnt do anything i still feel like i couldve done something different. she mentioned that i might be scared of committment. which im confuzed as to why this might be the conclusion she came up with. because to me it seems like im always running towards the relationship. just with the wrong guy. it just seems like every guy that's come along..ive ended up getting hurt in the end. the one guy i truley want has a girlfriend and i dont think that i'm ever going to be able to be with him. ive been basically in love with him since 9th grade and im a senior now. we were best friends during my 11th grade year and i dont understand how he moved on so fast. i just want to be with him but i dont know how to even talk to him about any of it since it seems like he so preoccupied with his girlfriend. we barely talk anymore because of it. so the way i deal with it is by running around tryn to find any guy that would be willing to date and go for them. i just want to know if i'm EVER going to find someone who will treat me right . im not cocky or anything but i kno i have the looks, but i also seem to have it in my head that pretty girls can get what they want..let alone many girls. but i just dont understand why i havent gotten what i want. i know that sounds really bad it's just the only way i can explain it. sorry for making this so long. i just dont know how to go about this.
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I have a lot of the same type of problem. I never can keep a relationship going, and I used to have the one person I knew it would work with, but the had a girlfriend. So I know how you feel. I would date anyone just to help me get over her. Eventually, I did get over her. And you'll get over him. The key is to not date to get over the person, but to just realize that you have to get over him and date others because you LIKE them. And you don't sound cocky. I'm the same way. I'm not saying I'm a model or anything, but I'm a pretty okay looking guy. So don't worry. The right guy will come along, until then, just date for fun. If a relationship doesn't last long, that's okay, don't get hurt. It's not like you're having these amazing heartfelt relationships that are ending, they are just for fun. So enjoy the time you get to meet new people and date for fun. Because if you make it, it can be a LOT of fun. :)
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