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SHOULD WE BE T0GETHER 0R NOT ?!
0OHKAY S0O iM BACK F0R S0ME M0RE ADViCE ;
i WAS RECENTLY iN A RELATi0NSHiP WHiCH DiDNT LAST MORE THEN A MONTH (WE DECiDED T0 BE FRiENDS] BUT i STiLL HANG 0UT WiTH HiM AL0T && HiS FAMiLY L0VES ME ! (LiKE WE SiNG KARA0KE && WATCH MOViES WiTH HiS MOM && DAD ALL THE TiME]
SO0 THE PROBLEM iS i WANT HiM BACK . i REALLLY LiKE HiM. BUT HE G0ES T0 AN0THER SK0OL && F0R SOME REAS0N i GET THiS GUT FEELiNG THT iT W0NT W0RK 0UT =/ (MY GUT FEELiNGS ARE USAULLY RiGHT]
&& 2ND PR0BLEM iS i LiKE THiS 0THER B0Y NOT AS MUCH BUT i LiKE HiM && i D0NT WANT T0 BE WiTH HiM BUT HE REALLLLY LiKES ME && i DONT KNOW H0W T0 TELL HiM THT i D0NT LiKE HiM AS MUCH AS HE LiKES ME .....
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Well, glad to hear this isn't the first time you've come to me :) I'm always here to help. First thing i think you need to do is tell the first boy that you still have feelings for him. Tell him that being around him had made you realize that maybe deciding to be friends wasn't the best idea and talk to him about giving it another shot. Even though he goes to another school, that doesn't mean you guys can't work it out. I know plenty of couples who go to different schools and their relationships are just as good as anybody elses. I noticed you said you have a gut feeling that it wouldnt work out. that may be true, but you never know until you give it a shot. Try it out again and see where it goes from there. I think that's the best thing you could do in this situation. Now, about the second guy. It's always hard to tell somebody you don't feel the same way about them as they do about you. But, to lead him on and make him think so wouldn't be fair. my suggestion to you would be when he starts to get flirty just give him friendly reminders that that's all you are, friends. if he doesn't get the hint then try talking to him. tell him that you kind of like him but you still have feelings for somebody else and that it wouldn't be fair of you to lead him on and make him think you feel a certain way about him when you don't. Hope I was able to help! -Hannah
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