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how to I get my girl friend back???
I am still in love with my girl friend we've been together for 4 years on and off... we both know we love each other but we're also long distance part of the four years but we visited often... we had a falling out back in January she did something to hurt me(not cheeting)and so I thought to show her that I was hurt and dissapointed I stopped talking to her for about six months she did try to contact me several times but I ignored her never for a second I stopped to think of her or stopped loving her... I was just really really hurt... I got in touch with her couple of weeks ago she was very nice and responsive with me but tolled me that she is dating someone and has moved on and suggests I do the same... just the thought of that makes me sick now I know 6 months is a long time to ignore a person especially a person you love... I know I was stupit to ignore her for this long but I did it... I never dated anyone else I was just hoping that she would realize her mistake and apologize and all would be well again... I tolled her how I feel and that i was sorry for all that time out but she tells me she likes this guy and wants to give her all to make it work... oviously I have different plans I want her back she keeps telling me that it is not fair to her new guy for us to talk but she keeps talking to me everytime I can her for long periods of time and also calls me back when I leave a massage or a text... I try not to over do it so i do not drive her further away but I stay in her face enough to let her know that I am here and I am approching it like lets be friends and I talk to her about things we did together that was fun and great memories and try to make her laugh... I am not sure if she is doing it because she feels sorry for me or because she still loves me but she just does not want to come out and say it especially with someone else in her life her new relationship is only 2 months old we have history how can she do this??? I am a pretty smart guy but I sure can use some good advice here what is the best strategy to get her back in my life???
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Well, I'd say maybe talking to her about how you felt and why you had stopped talking to her and let her know that you only wanted her to regret what had happened (whatever that was idk) and tell her you miss her and you'd like her back in your life, she may or may not say yes, idk what she's like but this I'd say is the best advice I could give I know thats how I'd want it .
I hope all works well for you,
_Bubblesxox <3
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