Hi. I'm 14 years old, and I do not know what to do. My boyfriend and I kiss a lot, and he fingers me sometimes, but I do not know what I can do to him that would be sort of the same as that. I know about a blow job, but I don't know what else there is to do. Help please.
Or, try talking to him and see what he likes. As long as you both are comfortable he can probably tell you and you both can kind of help each other out?
Just let him know you'd like to please him more, that's usually a turn on to guys, knowing that you want to please them as much as they please you. =)
Every guy is different and every guy likes different things, so if you don't want to have actual sex then ask him what he likes like I said. =) I know it seems dumb to ask but really, any guy I've ever met never minds it when I girl does talk to them/askes them about it. It's so much easier then guessing because they can tell you exactly how they like it. =)
And if it seems like it's not a turn on then try to make it like a game and have some fun with it. =)
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