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Two guys, One problem.
Alright, I'm about to go crazy over this so I'm in dire need of some help and I found your advicenator site and knew you were the one to ask! (:
Ok, I'm 16/f and I've been with my boyfriend for a little over 7 months and I care for him more than I could ever imagine BUT he has been getting on my nerves a lot more than normal lately.. so here's my problem... Since April 2008 I've realllly been into this other guy. From April until the end of school (in May) I was crazy. I had 1st period with him and 5th. So I saw him everyday.
Whenever he didn't show up I would freak and wonder where he was at, and I'd always look forward to seeing him... but after school let out I tried to forget about him so I could be with my boyfriend and not feel bad about myself. It totally worked until the beginning of this past week.
School Band camp started and he was there. All of my old feelings came back and I don't want to go though this again. but oh my goodness I almost melt every time I see him... I cannot be with both and I'm not even sure how this other guy feels about me! He's so shy and doesn't talk about his feelings very much... so it's hard to bring anything up.
I just want to know what I can do or at least what I SHOULD do. I don't want to treat my boyfriend badly anymore. Also I'm sorry it's so long, I tried to break the paragraph up a little so it doesn't kill you to read. (: Ha-ha.
Anyways, thank you for your help.. if you give me any!
-Doesn't know what to do
16/f
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Stay with your boyfriend. As far as I can see, he hasn't given you a reason to break it off with him. And besides, there's no guaranteeing that the other guy will even date you.
If you see him, try to avoid him. That is, unless you're going to want to be his friend WITHOUT having feelings for him.
--Jack
(16/m)
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