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Please help me... 15/f
Hey there.
(Just to warn you, this is gonna be really long.. I'm sorry =/ But please just hear me out on it.)
So there's this guy, Chris. He goes to school with me, but he'll be a senior and i'll be a sophomore.
We both play soccer at our school, which means we practice together sometimes during the summer (aka now, haha) and we play them in a few scrimmages during our season.
Anywho..
I really like this kid. He makes me feel really good about myself, he treats me like a princess, compliments me when I look and feel like crap, ya know. And I have problems with my heart, and he told me once that "you know I'm always here, I can fix your heart anytime" (:
But my parents are really weird about having people over, so the only time I see him and talk to him is at soccer, where we're both sweaty and busy practicing.
Other than that, I talk to him a lot on the computer, like a lot a lot. I've been known to stay up past 4 in the morning talking to him. It's because he doesn't have a cell phone, so we can't text or anything.
You see, I've had boyfriends before, but none of them were really that serious. I just got out of a relationship where my boyfriend was really mean to me, disrespectful, all that jazz. So I'm not exactly ready to jump back on the relationship-bandwagon.
But this guy, Chris, he says some really weird stuff to me. Like he tells me he loves me, and how much he loves me, all the freaking time.. And just yesterday he was saying how we're gonna get married after I graduate and go adopt kids. (I don't really want to actually have kids.)
But anyways, I do like him.. He's a really great guy, he's smart & funny, and he's good at soccer, if it makes a difference, haha. But it makes me uncomfortable when he says stuff like that, about getting married and how he loves me and stuff, cause I'm only 15. I don't know if I want to marry him, I don't know what true love is, I just feel like I'm getting in over my head here.
Oh, and he is really, and I mean REALLY, defensive. Like one time he was telling me about how he chipped the ball, and it hit the crossbar and came back and racked him, and I said "haha way to go." He freaked out on me. He was like "whatever. i guess you don't love me." and all that. So I have to say "chris i love you blah blah blah" or he won't talk to me. But then in the end, after he pissed me off by making me prove that I love him, he's like "haha gotcha. i was jk the whole time"
And one last thing. Today, after the guys were done practicing, the girls still had like 30 minutes of practice left, and two of the guys stayed to help. One of them, PG, is our goalie's older brother, who I'm friends with. The other guy, Kyle, I knew him through Facebook, honestly, haha but I'd never gotten the chance to talk to him. But we were doing World Cup, where you get partners and try to win the "Cup" by scoring 5 goals per "team." Kyle was on my team, because my usual partner wasn't at practice. After Kyle and I had scored like 4 goals, I saw Chris pull up in his truck. I guess he left his ball there or something. Anyways, I didn't think anything of it, and we kept on playing. After Kyle scored our last goal, we did a little chest-bump thing (haha we were kinda hyper and really tired) and then I hugged him, cause we won. But Chris came up and was like "dude what the heck was that." and kyle just said "we won...?" So Chris stormed off, and hasn't talked to me since.
I'm really confused about this and everything.. I don't know what to do.
Thanks so much for your time.
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I hope you don't mind me giving a short answer to supplement your long question ;]
I think he seems a little possessive of you, and that kind of scares me. Sure, he can be romantic, but sometimes one small bad thing can ruin all of the good things- not all the time, but sometimes.
I say that you shouldn't be in a rush to date, especially when you've already gone through a bad breakup. You have a lot of years left to date; enjoy your single life while it lasts ;]
--Jack
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