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getting over a breakup with a selfish person
my boyfriend(26) of 7 months recently broke up with me(also 26).i thought everything was great between us until about a month ago he said he thought he was depressed and hates his job.i tried to help him through it, but got dumped in the end. he wouldn't even sit down and talk face to face with me. now he is texting me saying things like: i'm so sorry, i wish it could be how it was, maybe in another time or place, please accept my apology, i'm sorry for how i handled the situation, i'm sorry how it turned out,etc.....i also found out he signed up for online sites where people are just looking for sex. i'm so disgusted and disappointed.i know i need to forget about him and move on.i just feel so deceived by him, when i once thought he was so wonderful. i want a better understanding why he would do those things and if he was pretending to be someone else while we were together but now this is who he really is. its all very confusing and disappointing.
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You will get through this. It is perfectly normal to be confused and disappointed. Your ex-boyfriend is very troubled and you probably still don't know the half of it. He is sorry, and that is fine, but it does not change anything. His problems are his personal issues and no one but he can work on them. I would focus on taking care of yourself, including std testing if you think he may have been having random sex. Your disgust will eventually melt into pity for him, and you will move on and be glad you did. It really could be worse..I hear lots of these things and some women are married with kids by the time they find stuff like this out. You are not stuck...thank the heavens and your freedom to move on with your life. He only took 7 months...that really is nothing, chalk it up to experience!
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