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well my there was this boy and he i have hae been best friends for like a yr and friends for like 2 and we dated starting in decmber but then broke up like 3 weeks ago. im moving and so hes trying to like avoid me and hes trying to adjust to life without me which hurts butim trying to accept it. we tried to be friends after breaking up but he barely talks to me. he said we would hang out saturday but then never called and i called him x2 and he just totally blew me off! idc if he couldnt hang but he didnt even tell me he couldnt. soo anyway im just going to stop trying because i keep getting hurt and he keeps letting me down but i dont know how to like live without his friendship. he and i used to always talk and now he barely has time for me. he says he always busy with hw and stuff but i know he could make time if he wanted. what should i do?? i know i need to try and forget him at least until now because i want HIM to show effort not always ME but its hard to put our friendship in his hands because i think if its up to him he wont make time for me. i dont want to lose that friendship though. i told him things i tell only my very closest friends and he and i had a connection i have never had with anyone before. he was the first guy i loved. (okk i know love is a big thing but im serious i did love him and he loved me but i also kno i will love many people and that i will love my husband waay more than my first love) i know deeeeep down he still cares and that hes struggling with the fact that im moving but in that hes deeply hurting me. i have tried numerous times to talk to him but nothing gets through.
so how do i try and move on?? how do i stop thinking about him so much? and are there any other ways to try and talk to him about this whole thing? i doubt it-i have tried everything and i even tried just having fun and being friends with him--thats why we were supposed too hang out sat. i feel like i cant get through to him and i might just have to wait a while until he copes with everything. please help me...and i know keeping busy is a good way to deal with this but i dont have anything to do. i mean i've been reading a lot and i have my goodbye party to plan but i dont have like a hobby or anything. and i dont like to excersice so...idk
anyway THANKS :)
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Well it's kind of obvious that he's not interested in staying close friends with you.
Accept it, move on, find new guys where ever you're moving.
Nothing more to it.
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