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theres a long story behind this, but ill make it short and get to the root problem of it all.
basically me and this one guy who have known eachother for a pretty long time, havent been talking for the past month or so.
it was his decision to stop talking all together, and honestly i dont really know the real reason why he wanted this.
i do know that he liked me a lot, i didnt like him. he said that i betrayed his trust with things, mainly he got mad when i hooked up with other guys.
i want to think that the reason why he doesnt want to be friends anymore is because he cant have me in the way that he wants me, but i cant help that.
but anyway, ive tried texting and calling him. but i can just tell by his voice and his hints about not returning my texts, that he seriously is over and done with me.
it hurts a lot, but i still really care for him, and i keep hoping that he will change his mind and come back to me so we could start new and fresh. but its not happening..
i guess my question is, what should i do about this whole thing? i cant seem to get this out of my head and its bugging the crap out of me.
its a lot harder to just forget about someone than i thought and it hurts.
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The more you pursue and bug him by texting etc...the more he will avoid you. He thinks you are chasing him now and he may enjoy being in control for once or just really be done with you. Stop trying so hard and just give him some space. He knows your number and will call you if and when he wants to. You have broken the two rules when it comes to guys. First rule: Don't trash the fragile male ego. Second rule: Don't chase a guy...they like to do the chasing. I cannot promise he will come back to you, but for both your sake's you need to learn from this and respect his decision. By calling him you are proving you still don't honor his feelings.
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