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I like two people at onceeeee.
okay so theres this two people that i guess you can say im into. okay well one i have always been into but hes had a gf. the other one is like recent.okay so the one i have always been into just broke up with his gf.we texted for a while which makes me like him more .so now you can say im talking to him. okay, so i didnt think i would like the recent one. but it ended up that i actually do. through all this talking on the phone, school made me like him as any girl.the problem is i like them both. i have NO idea what to do. i think about both of them. get so excited to see both. but i kind of like seeing the one from a while ago then the recent one.like the one i have alwyas been into, i wouldnt want him to see me with another guy. i mean i know if he saw me with another boy i think he might get jealous cause i do think he could be into me.but i think that if i had to see him with another girl he might not have the same problem i would. but the recent guy i started liking, i wouldnt want to hurt him either by being with the other boy. i like them both, but i dont want either of them to get hurt or me to get hurt by hurting them. i kinda want to be with both of them. but of course thats not possiblee.i know the recent one likes me, i KNOW that. the other one, ehh now im not so sure about him. i want to find out without making it obvious.but i think he might have a "thing" for me. how can i do that ? and also what can i try to do to help myslef make the right decision on who to choose, if i would have to choose.
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Wow, seems like you have a little problem on your hands. Well, if I was in your situation I'd probably stick to the newer guy for a few reasons.
First of all, you KNOW he likes you. It's not a guessing game because you already know how he feels. On the other hand, you would need to be sure you have feelings for him in return and wouldn't be going out with him because he's an easy catch. That wouldn't be fair to him.
Second of all, I understand you like the other guy and you have for a while. But, you need to take a few things into consideration. How long ago did he break up with his girlfriend? Does he have any kind of emotional attachments to her still? How long did he go out with her for? The answers to these questions are essential in being positive that you wouldn't be the rebound. Nobody likes to be the rebound because then you might end up getting hurt if he decides he's better off with his ex or better off single depending on his emotional state with his past relationship.
If you want to know how the guy you've liked for a while feels maybe you should ask him questions like "So, are you interested in having a girlfriend right now or do you not know what you want at this point?" or simply ask him "I was just wondering where we stand right now, like are we friends or what?" or you could say "Well I was just wondering because I've heard you have a thing for me but I'm not sure if that's true or not so I figured I'd ask you and get a straight answer."
If it comes down to you having to choose one of them, I'm suggesting you really put a lot of thought into who you have stronger feelings for and who you could see yourself with for a while. Think about who makes you happier and who you think you could have a more successful relationship with. you also need to consider who you think is more trustworthy. Making sure you don't put yourself in a position where you're going to get hurt is essential. I hope it all works out for you!
Well hope i was able to help! xxo Hannah
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