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Its me again.
Hi, I'm the girl who needed advice with the boyfriend and how we have to wait a year to date. Yeah. Well thing is..I'd hang out with him all the time and we'd still date if it weren't for my parents saying we aren't aloud to see each other.
I know its weird, they love him. but They want me to mature without being with him? So Any other advice there? I'm not even really supposed to be talking to him..Ya know? So What do i do? I don't want to risk having to wait even longer so I'm trying to abide by the rules. yet we still text..not too bad. I like the communication there.
Also, We've made a promise that no matter who we are with in a year when we can hang out we will have a night together just to see if the flame can be rekindled.
Idk just some more background info.
Any other more advice now that you know i'm not really supposed to be seeing/talking to him like we used to?
-Thanks,
"Waiting"
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Ask your parents if it's ok to hang out with him if it's with a bunch of other people. As long as you ask them about it, I'm sure a reasonable compromise can be reached.
Maybe you could request one phone call a week? It's ridiculous to sever ALL contact for an entire year. Even if it's just a 15-20 minute chat to catch up, I really don't understand why your parents wouldn't want you to. Texting is good, like you said.
Perhaps your parents will allow him over for a "family dinner" like once a month or something. That way you can spend time together and your parents can be included.
The best thing to do, like I said, is talk it out with your parents and try to come up with some reasonable compromises.
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