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Waiting for each other.


Question Posted Sunday March 30 2008, 9:27 pm

Okay so, I've been dating my boyfriend for about 7 or 8 months in all. We realllly like each other. We've devoted alot of time for each other and I just feel our relationship is healthy and we're very compatable.

I'm 15, 16 in two months. and He is 18, 19 in two months(We have the same birthday, June 2nd). My parents LOVE HIM. They think he is a really great guy, but recently they've expressed their thoughts that they think I am a bit young right now and I need about a year to mature.

So. We're having to wait to date again for a whole year. I'm LOST at what to do. Do I let him go completely? Do i continue to talk to him and just let things go with the flow until we can date in a year?

What if he moves on? What is the likeliness that our "flame is rekindled" in a year if we're not in other relationships. I just need advise at what to do. How to act.

We still talk and tell each other we love each other and stuff. We're kinda "playing it by ear". Basically I just don't want to hold him back from other things like a new girlfrined or just the single life. Also, I want him to be mine in a year. But who knows I might move on also..ya know? Just..advice!

Thanks!


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dropbeats12 answered Wednesday April 2 2008, 6:49 pm:
keep talking to him.
good dude. if you stop talking to him things will prolly mess up

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sugarplum07 answered Monday March 31 2008, 7:56 am:
Definitely keep hanging out. There's nothing wrong with being friends right now, right?

Communication is key if you want this to work. Express all your concerns with him. Tell him all the things you told us. I'm sure he's wondering the exact same things. You've been together a long time. I'm sure that as long as you see each other and spend time together often, things will go on great.

If the two of you move on, you move on. Whatever is meant to be will be.

I think it's really cool that you respect your parents. I just wanna throw that out there. Already, you're showing the signs of maturity that they're looking for. Good for you! :)

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