What am I supposed to do? Sometimes my boobs like to poke out [only at home tho] and I'm wearing the right cup size since I got measured and whatnot. What's a good bra for coverage? Also what kind of shirts should I wear because apparently i dress inappropriately. Guys tell my boyfriend "make your girlfriend put a jacket on" and it's seriously pissing me off because I do not dress slutty like the rest of the girls in the room. I was told to wear flattering v-shirts [not deep v's btw] and apparently it's inappropriate because of cleavage? Is that really fair? My boobs aren't coming out of the shirt and yet, I get in trouble while the other girls wear low shirts!
i don't know what to wear. i'm so limited to shirts and i really hate this. i can't even look good without it looking bad.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Fashion and Styles? arielle316 answered Sunday March 23 2008, 5:23 pm: ok lol, i know how you feel because i have pretty big boobs for my size. all i can say is that yea, you just need to make sure to keep them covered. sometimes it just looks bad because they are big in general. *not bad but you know what i mean. try not to wear too tight shirts but that is the style, so just search for clothes that flatter your own body. be picky, its good to be picky in what you buy. i know that sometimes i try on a shirt or dress and it pulls around my bust. if it happens, put it back on the rack and keep looking for something different. try to make sure your boobs arent showing more than about an inch from the cut of your shirt and dont wear tank tops that cut low because they will ride down. wear v-cuts with a cami underneath them, that will help, but make sure the cami isnt pressed to tightly against you otherwise it will make it seem like your boobs are coming out even if they arent. keep an eye on it and pull it up every so often to make sure.
maybe look for more sophisticated styles rather than what you are wearing now because most girls just get tight clothes that of course are going to press your boobs up and out of your shirt, whether you want that to happen or not
as for your bf's friends, the matter shouldnt be concerning them. if you care about this then duh, your not a slut
i know a enough girls that have this issue and its no one's fault. all i can say is try on some different styles of bras, maybe wear a sports bra over your regular bra to help hold them in and get less tight clothes. but guys will still notice your boobs even if you dont wear low cut shirts. youre right, it isnt fair that you cant wear them, but remember that their bodies are different from yours so you should wear what best flatters your own body-not someone elses. you will come on as not inappropriate plus you will look great and get all the right attention :)
hope that i helped a little bit at least!! good luck!! [ arielle316's advice column | Ask arielle316 A Question ]
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