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Confused..
Ok theres this guy that I like and he flirts with me all the time, but then the next day he just acts so cold to me, and we fight all the time about nothing...but he also flirts with other girls aswell, ecpecially this one who he used to like but reckons he doesn't anymore, at the moment we're kind of in an actual fight so i can't really talk to him, and even if I asked him if he liked me, he never really gives a proper answer, and plus I don't want to ruin our friendship...what should I do???
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If first and foremost you don't want to ruin your friendship, you need to talk to him. Forget that you're fighting right now and talk to him. Be up front and mature with him. Tell him you don't want anymore games. Tell him exactly how you feel.
Say you are tired of him sending you mixed signals. Tell him you have feelings for him and if he doesn't feel the same way, tell him he needs to tell you right now so you can move on and the two of you can just be friends.
It isn't fair to you for him to be messing with your head like this. As long as you are mature and upfront with him, it will be very difficult for him to avoid your questions.
Maybe once your feelings are out on the table and the two of you know what the other is thinking, there will be less fights. And if he likes you, you can work on building a stronger relationship.
First though, he needs to cut the bullshit and come clean with you. If he refuses, he's not worth being in your life anyway.
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well it sounds like he is just a flirt. or it could be his way of showing you that he likes you. this happened to me all of last year and it really does some mental damnage. just confront him about it
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