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is being depressed ok all the time? im thinking...no.


Question Posted Tuesday March 4 2008, 8:23 pm

yah so im 15/girl/usa
i broke up with my boyfriend about two months ago, and we were not really close at all. And we were together less than a month. And ive met other guys, espcially one i love. But he already has a girlfriend, but we're friends and he knows i like him. Well, he broke up with his girlfriend recently and is going out with my friend. And I really dont know if I am more angry, or sad/depressed. Ive been really unhappy lately, I feel really lonely and I feel like no guy could ever want me. I'm not perfect, I'm a little overweight, but I'm outgoing and just myself. And I really dont want to rush into relationships, but I really need help with guys and how to get them. And I am really depressed I cry a lot at night, I try to do something about it but it never works. I'm really confused. I am bascially depressed, confused and mostly lonely, very lonely. I'm really social, and I would love a guy, we dont even have to be b/f and g/f, just if I had a best guy friend. I have a lot of my girlfriends, but my best ones go to other schools, and only a couple go to my school. I can only really depend on a few. I really dont know wut to do. Please help. Thanks.


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java answered Wednesday May 9 2012, 8:12 pm:
I know what this is like. I am 16. I am also a girl. I had a guy I really like tell me he loves me then he went had sex with another girl just because she asked him to. I am confused, sad and lonely too. Understand you're not alone. I think it is just the stages of life. We all have our bad days and memories. Excuse my language but that guy was full of shit. Not only were you hurt by this girl but I am sure his ex was hurt too. Please understand that no one is perfect. Even the really skinny girls wants to get weight. They may not seem like it,but some do. Guy friends are cool. I mean if you're social and nice, stake out your options. See who is cool and nice in school who is a boy and start up a conversation. Then see where it goes and see a friendship can be formed. I did this before and it worked for me, I don't know if it will work for you, but you have to give things a try in order to make a change. There is a guy out there for you. I know that is cliche but it happened to me. I went through a lot it is nice to have friends, female and male, who were there for me. Especially my boyfriend now who is amazing and understands and feels the same way I do about things.Nothing is wrong with you no matter what anyone says. No one is ugly in my opinion. I think everyone looks good. Give the nice guys a chance. It is all about personality, not appearance.

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