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should i see him?
okay ,
so theres this boy and when i was younger we dated...we both liked each other so muchh and we literally would do anything to see each other because we didnt go to the same school..unfortunately i found out he was in a gang..i was in middle school and really didnt care but then my mom found out!..she wouldnt let me see him or talk to him or even text him..i felt guilty because if i did talk to him it would be behind her back..well its been about 3 years now..he went to my highschool for a while..hes been doing so much better hes not gang affiliated anymore however he will always be one. we finaly started talking again and im starting to like him again even though i know his reputation may not ever let me be with him in a stable relationship because of what my mother thinks, i still want one..theres this side of him shes never seen and thats the side i love hes a great person and would never want to harm my mother and i.he doesn't go to my highschool anymore but I saw him the other day and i was so happy! He lives conveinently close But my mom didn't know..i dont like hiding things from her but if thats what i have to do to see him am i wrong? im going to be 17 soon so i should be able to make my own desicions. please help me i need a second opinion..i just don't want to loose him again. but i want to live happy and pure what do i do?
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Well, in my opinion, I think you should explain to your mom the current situation with the fact that you guys are talking again. But, you should also explain to her the fact that he has also changed over time and is has made attempts (and been successful) to getting on the right track. Maybe that will help change her perspective of who he is a person. Also, (just a suggestion) if you want your mom to be able to trust that he has changed and is a good person, when you hang out, try to hang out in a setting (like your home) where your mom can see for herself the change in who he was then to who he is now. The key here is to be honest with your mom. If she is worried, it's only because she wants to protect you. Just be honest with her and hope that she can change her mind about him, even if it takes some time. Hope i was able to help! xxo Hannah
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