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how do i know its for real
so basically long story short : girl [me] is in love with guy. guy lives not in the same state. guy told girl hes in love with her. but sometimes he can be totally weird. like hes up and then hes down. its like talking to two different people sometimes. and i mean dont get me wrong i love both of "them" lol but its hard, i want a constant and stable relationship and i cant have that with him, but i cant picture myself with anyone else. even if im not "with him", i would rather spend my days without him, then with any one else. /: if i give yu more info you'll know who i am. lmao. cause you already knw the whole situation anyways. loser. so yeah am i crazy hannah? i'm giving him my heart, and i think he gave me his, but sometimes i feel like hes shutting me out. /: how do i know this is real? i mean i trust him that it is and that hes not lying but im totally stressing. <3
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Well, to answer you're question, no you aren't "crazy" but you do have feelings for him that tend to get overwhelming at times because you can't be with him as often as you want and sometimes can't even talk to him as much as you would like. you also have to take into consideration the fact that distance plays a huge part in where your relationship would be heading. You don't need to stress because from what i know he really did mean it when he told you he loved you. I don't think he's trying to shut you out but maybe for him, talking to you round the clock is hard because not being able to see and spend time with the one you really have strong feelings for hurts and talking to you may remind him how much it sucks that he can't be by your side. I agree that his moods do in fact change rapidly without warning which may be giving you mixed signals but at the same time, you have to remember he has bi polar disorder. I think you just stress out easily because i know you've been hurt before and you know for a fact he can treat you right. He really does love you and you need to just relax and live in the now. Let things just flow and fall into place. It may take a while but it'll be well worth it in the long run. Hope i helped. :) xxo Hannah
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