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love and sex . maybe i should wait?
I'm seeing the guy i'm madly in love with within the next couple of months, and i want to have sex with him. i am a virgin and i wasnt really waiting for him but im glad it worked out this way. i want him to be my first but i dont want to freak him out cuz im not sure if knows i still am a virgin. but im totally comfortable about sex and everything now so im ready. i just dont want him to be all weird about it. idno wat to do x0
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Well, my personal opinion, I'm assuming he also has feelings for you too, but ask yourself; if he feels the same way about you as you feel about him, would it really matter whether or not you have already lost your virginity? I'm not him so I don't know if he's the type of guy who likes a girl with a little more experience or if he would respect the fact that you waited for somebody who you really care about and trust to lose your virginity to. If you think he would be "weirded out" by the fact that you're a virgin, I think you should be completely honest with him. After all, you do like him, correct? And if you do choose in the long run to persue a relationship, remember that honesty is key. If you start out from the get go and aren't up front about being a virgin, you're not technically lying but you aren't exactly displaying the truth either. From what you're telling me, you are ready for sex and this is the person you'd really like to lose your virginity to. So, my advice to you, talk to him about how you feel. Tell him, "look, I want to be honest with you. I'm a virgin and I want you to know that, but I know that I'm ready and I trust you. I just want you to be comfortable with the fact that I may not be as experienced as you but I do know that I'm ready." Being honest with him, in my opinion, is most important, and if it bothers him that you're a virgin then question him about his concerns and go from there. Hope I was able to help! :) xxo Hannah
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