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please help me on what to do
the guy i like.. we have something going on, were kinda like freinds with benefits, he knows i have strong feeling for him, i know he likes me too. he just has problems with commitemnt, and i really wanna have a relatioship with him. he drinks and everything every now and then.. and i know thats when he doesnt care what girl hes with and hell just make out with anyone.. i wanna do something thatll make him see that im worth the commitment, i need advice on what to do to really show him im different and we should really be together
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Wow, I went through practically the exact same thing! I know how you feel. Okay, so he's scared of commitement?You have to show him, tell him that it's not like your asking for his hand in marriage, you're asking him for a chance. TEll him to give you a chance, show him that you're not gonna rush anything, you don't even have to get into all that I love you stuff yet. Tell him how you feel and tell him your boundries, meaning that if he's not willing to give you a chance then just being friends with benefits is going to make this really hard on you(believe me it is, I know how you feel) Because you like him but if he can't at the very least give you a chance at being his girlfriend, then you can't keep doing this. You have to show him that you're independent or else he can just say that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you but he can still have you in some way. I know this is hard, but I think you should definetly talk to him. Show him how great of a person you are and how much of an even greater girlfriend you'd make. I wish you all the best, if you need any more help with this, I'll be here:)
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