Question Posted Thursday December 27 2007, 11:39 pm
ok hi my names chelsea and i dont know you or anything but i really need help and your the first name i saw. im crying so hard right now i need someone to talk to. i just got home from my boyfriends house, or ex boyfriend i guess now. i dont know how to say this. he raped me. i dont know how else to say it. he raped me. we were kissing, like we usually do when we're at his house and his parents are out of town and it starting getting more intense and then he started ripping my clothes off and sticking is penis in me and it hurt so bad i was crying and omg..i cant freaking handle this right now. what am i supposed to do??
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? danibugruble answered Thursday December 27 2007, 11:55 pm: Okay first of all calm down, and dont take a shower, wash your hands or anything. Remember that this is not you fault and no one has the right to treat you that way. You can call a rape hotline [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) or 1-800-656-HOPE. You need to make sure that you get helped. If you go to a rape center they will check you for STD's and give you a drug to prevent you from getting pregnant. You can also talk to counselors to help you through the healing process. I recommend telling a parent what happened. They won't be mad at you, they will try there best to help you. This way you will be able to heal faster and you wont feel like you are keeping something bottled up. Is a parent home? Then tell them, if they aren't, call a friend or someone you trust to take you to the doctors were you can get examined. If worse comes to worse you can call the police and they will take you. I really hope everything works out for you. Remember that it is not you fault, and don't be afraid to persucute your ex-boyfriend. He has done something wrong and he should be punished, make sure you report it to the police also. Good luck, -Danibugruble [ danibugruble's advice column | Ask danibugruble A Question ]
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