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......no i dont have her #, im not one of those chic who likes ot talk on the phone.....
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Okay, so talking to her is a non possiblity. It does sound that you aren't on the fence though. It's just a matter of you being comfortable with your feelings then. It sounds that at some point in your life that you want to feel another woman's touch. There is this one survey/poll site I've been on where people answer real questions. It isn't like "what sort of vegetable are you?" But some of deals with relationship and sexual thoughts and practices. Off the top of my head, about 50 percent of girls have had a sexual experience with a girl and I think it was around 75 percent fantasize about other girls. Believe me, you aren't the only girl thinking what you think. Some of your straight girl friends are thinking the same thing. Nobody wants to ever be the first person to say things or to admit. Your top priority right now is to be true to you. You do seem that you have accepted what you feel. You aren't thinking improperly. It's not like you are trying to feel what you feel. From a few specials I've seen on tv, I'll give you the nuts and bolts reason why you do feel what you feel. All people are the same gender when conceived. That's why guys have nipples. Basically, we all get two messages. The first says "okay, this child will be a girl or boy". That comes from the chromosones. The second message comes from the mothers hormones. The mix of testosterone and estrogen sort of determines our makeup as far as self image and attraction. People that want to be the opposite gender are thought to have a strange level of testosterone at a pivotal point of development. All I mean is this. It wasn't your choice. It is who you are. When it comes to God, and believe me, I believe in God, sins are about a matter of having free will and doing the wrong thing. In your case, did you really have a choice? I say no. I think this is who you are meant to be. You were given these thoughts and feelings. Maybe this is actually a blessing. Maybe you were given the chance to have joy in things others cannot have it in. Sexuality in the US is very behind in the times. In the 1800's, we went thru the victorian times and basically what happened is a bunch of stodgy white guys got together and made up all of these proper repressive rules. Homosexuality, lesbianism and being promiscious was not so highly frowned upon. It was common practice to go to brothel prior to this time. People are repressed here. Some of those thoughts back then still exist. It's not quite the same in other countries. I know your worries about God. Your relationship with God is personal. I cannot tell you what is wanted and nobody else can including family or friends. But I know this much, nobody knows you better than God. God knows if you have faith and God knows how much love you have. There are things in the Bible about male homosexuality but nothing about females. I learned that from a show on the history channel. But even with all of that, I don't know if it is that we aren't supposed to have any same sex moments or if it is meant that we should have someone we can have children with. It's possible maybe that we should be able to have kids. I don't know if you can hide what you think. If I like a girl I feel like everyone knows. Then when I ask them out or tell them , they had no clue. So, if you are like me, you are probably paranoid. People don't pay that much attention. The very worst is people may think you are touchy feely for now.
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