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is my boy frend really cheating on me like they say he is?
well im cheating on my boyfriend becouse he is suppostly cheating on me he ignores me on the phone he dont pay attention to me when i call him he says he gonna call me back and he dosent i txt him n his on da phone he gets a attitude on me my cousin told me that on sunday he was with some girl at church all day whats going on!! doese he still like me? well and the guy im cheating on with is about to be a daddy! im confuse all i wanna is find out whats going on i dont cry for this i just get sad!
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Slow down a second. You are acting out of fear and not strength and that is only going to lead to more pain. We don't know if he is cheating on you for sure, but actions speak louder than words. Forget actually the cheating part for a second and just think about how he treats you. Are YOU enjoying how he treats you? No. So you need to take back your power and decide that he is not what you want right now and let him go. Hanging on to a bad thing will never change it into a good thing. Now, it is perfectly fine and normal to be disappointed and hurt and even to let it all out by having a good cry now and then. Holding it all in is not healty. Let yourself feel the pain and then let it go. Don't cover it up with another relationship and try to prove to yourself and the world that you are tough. Rushing in to being with another guy will only temporarily make you feel wanted again. You know this new guy can't fix the emptiness you feel inside and he has a lot of baggage you don't need messing your life up more. You need to concentrate on yourself, your feelings, your life, your needs, your goals. Someday, and sooner than you think, you will find someone who is not into game playing and will respect you for the woman you are. This will only be after you learn to be honest with yourself, do things for yourself and respect your life. Holding out for better is not easy at first, but pretty soon you will realize that settling for less is a lousy experience and no way to live your life. I wish you all the best.
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