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does he want them or me?
My ex and I have being talkin for over a month. He gave me a password to his MySpace I read the messages they were all from his exs he even told each and everyone of them that he wanted to get back with them. We got back together for about a week now. There was this message he send recently saying to the girl to call him asap. I want to break up with him so he can keep doing his flirty thang so it wont hurt me no more. WHY WOULD YOU SAY YOU WANT TO GET BACK TOGETHER WITH ME IF YOU WERE ASKING ALL THOSE OTHER GIRLS OUT?! right? plz help!!
he even told me that this girl was just a friend that gave him advice about love but when i read the messages he said that she was pretty and ect.. on and on. and the password thing i had to kill him for it but he didnt want me to get uppset over the messges does this even mean anything?
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I really don't understand why he would give you his password to his private account. Nonetheless, like for most anyone, the temptation to read his private mail was too much to resist. Some people will always flirt and desire attention from the opposite sex to boost the ego and it is not really cheating. However, if the flirting is hurting you, you need to move on. We cannot change people and they will not change for us...even for love. The beauty of this is that you are learning from this experience and you have the freedom to date a huge variety of guys with different personalities. The hardest thing in the world is to not take it personally...but you must. The sooner you can master the humility of understanding that you alone can make yourself happy and that everyone has different ideas of what it means to be happy, the better off you will be. This guy may always be a flirt, but if he is an honest flirt, I say that is better than a dishonest man. The only opinion that matters here is yours, and you alone know if he is worth the trouble.
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