Question Posted Saturday September 15 2007, 5:00 pm
me and my friend sydney have been best friends for a long time. She was going out with this kid for a few months but they never really hit it off.. theyre both sort of insecure. so they ended up breaking up, but they are still good friends, and she still has a crush on him. The problem is, that me and him talk everyday, and we've gotten to be really close (closer than my friend and him are) and we have both realized that we like each other, but dont know what to do, because neither of us want to hurt sydney.
but in your situation.. first i would ask myself if hurting sydney or risking your friendship is worth being with a guy for who knows how long. and if you want to pursue your realtionship with him, the best thing to do is tell her how you feel about him, but in a light way. but also wait it out a little and see how much longer she has a crush on him. when you tell her, make sure shes ok with it, cause that last thing you want is your friend getting pissed while your with the other guy.
boo12349 answered Sunday September 16 2007, 3:10 pm: You should tell her and even though it will hurt her it won't hurt her as much as it would if she found out any other way!! [ boo12349's advice column | Ask boo12349 A Question ]
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