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broken heart!
hey,
my name is kate and im 15 years old. im a girl. i was really hoping you could help me out. i really want to get over this boy.. but something inside me just wont let him go. first ill fill you in on the backround between us. His name is Greg and I've known him for a really long time but never really thought of him in that way. We got to the same school and i was a freshman when he was a senior but he just graduated and im starting my sophmore year soon. It all started when i heard that he had a thing for me and thoguht i was really hot and wanted to hook up wiht me. I was flatterd but i didnt really think anything of it and i never like hang out with him or anything so i doubted it would ever happen. Then about two weeks ago theres this town soccer camp (we both play soccer) and we happened to both be working at it with like a bunch of people from my school and we ended up coaching the same team together. There was so much chemistry and i developed a small crush for him but i really didnt have any feelings for him. He told my friends that he tought i was hot and wanted to hang out with me and stuff. He would IM me and we would talk and we just got along so well.I was away with some of my friends the next few days and i kept thinking about him. When i got back i was going to go to this concert the next day with a bunch of my friends and he found out so he wanted to go and we were both going. We both knew we would hook up that night. I kinda had a bit too much to drink and hooked up with two other random guys that night and he stayed with me the whole night taking care of me and makign sure i was ok. As i started to sober up we were pretty touchy-feely if u know what i mean and i loveed being with him. He said he wouldn't hook up with me until i was sober.. which was cute cause he said he didnt want to take advantage of me. He said really nice things to me and told me if we hooked up he didnt want it to just be one time and he didnt want it to just be a concert thing. He was like we can hang out tomorrow just you and me and all this stuff. Finally just before he left for the concert we kissed and it was perfect. I had to go down the cape the next few days and when i got back on monday he was leaving the next day for college. I never really got to talk to him or say goodbye. I figured he was gone and i should just get over him. Then he messaged me on facebook (its like a myspace..just in case you dont know what that is) and he asked how things were back home and everything and he said: "I don't have my laptop yet so i cant go on AIM and talk but ive been using my friends laptop to check my facebook but i don't have enough time to go on AIM and talk to people cause he needs to use it.. but when i get my laptop dont get all cool on me and not talk to me" i was so happy to finally hear from him. The next few days i was going crazy i missed him and i wanted to talk to him so much and finally he got his laptop and we talked on AIM and flirted so much and he was saying when he got back he wanted to hang out and he wanted me to come visit him. I know that hes older and hes in college and it really can't work and i just want to get over him! hes such a nice kid and hes really cute and i know that im not just some hookup or some random girl.. hes not that kind of guy. but i know it could never work.. hes at college and im in highschool. i just wanted your advice on what to do.. and if u had any tips to get over greg. i think my question may be wayyy to long and if you just read it thank you so much for taking your time to help me it means so much! i'm just really desperate for help! thank you SO much for helping!
-Kate :]
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hay! ok well i don't think you should have get over him i mean he's sounds like a very nice guy and there are allot of people out there that date like that. but if you really want to get over him then talk to him tell him that all you want to be is friends and that the hole college high school is not going to work for you two.don't stop talking to him because that is almost worse way to leave someone that like/loves you.just be up front with him don't drop hints that you don't wanna be with him just say it but not in a mean way like "i dont wanna be with you so good bye."but nicely lol if that makes any sence??
but in my honist opinyin i think you should stay with him, he's sounds like a great boy.
hope i helped you out if not then tell me and I'll try to be more helpful
-ashlee
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