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What exactly is going on?


Question Posted Thursday August 23 2007, 1:09 pm

Ok, a guy came to my school in November 2006. He ended up in my science class, and the teacher sat him next to me, not next to some of the guys( She organized the seating plan as we were all annoying her.) At first he was shy..obviously as he was new. Because we have Science in three different classrooms I was expecting him to sit somewhere else since it was with only one teacher we had a seating plan with...anyway.
We sat next to each other in all three science classes..and in maths he sat in front of me..and he'd turn around to talk to me, or generally just make me laugh.

Since he came, we've grown closer and closer. He would tease me, be a b*tch (in a joking way) or be really nice and caring. I was annoyed at some friends, so I went to talk to him, and he didn't say anything negative.

During the summer he asked me out..out as in go out to a place..not out as in ''lets be a couple'' and I asked if he wanted to invite anyone else..and he said ok, so I invited some friends and he said fine but then on the day he told me couldn't go..and I still think it was an excuse, cause he wanted just us two to go out...and since I'm changing schools, he keeps telling me that he will miss me(but I'm staying in the same country)

I do like him quite a lot..but I donno what exactly is going on. Can you tell me.

Also he is quite flirty around girls...
and I'm 14/f.

Sorry that this was so long..but I can't really shorten it!


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Cux answered Thursday August 23 2007, 10:23 pm:
Normally, I don't answer these questions anymore. But for some reason, this question engaged me. I guess it was because you spelled things correctly and you didn't sound like an annoying 14 year old girl asking about how to give a blow job.
Thank you for being mature and mannered, from all of us here on Advicenators. We really appreciate it.

So- I think that this guy probably has feelings for you. And I think you're right in thinking that he was upset that you invited friends. Anytime a guy is this flirty with you or any girl and then asks you to do something with just you two- HE LIKES YOU. Trust me- when I like a girl- this is how I think.
All of your assumptions are most likely correct and I think that if you want a relationship with this guy- go for it. Not many like this are out there =D.

--Jack
(15/m)

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