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i made a huge mistake...
i have been dating my girlfriend Caitlyn for two years in October. She is the most amazing girl i have ever met and about 7 months ago i gave her a promise ring and i know Cait is the girl i want to spend the rest of my life with. Sometimes we get into little fights and blow them way out of proportion. About a month ago we had one of these fights and she wouldn't come to a party with me that night. I was pretty upset with her and At that party, i got pretty drunk and slept with a girl from another school. I didn't tell her about it and everything seemed like it was fine until this girl i slept with showed up at my baseball game and just so happens to sit down next to Cait and her best friend without knowing it was them. They start talking and pretty soon Becca, the girl from the party, has to go so she asks my girl friend if she could give me a ring back that i had left at her house (the promise rings we gave each other. i guess i left it there that night) of course my girlfriend gets curious why this girl has my ring and so she asks becca about it and she told her the whole thing. After the game Cait brought the ring up to me and said that my "little friend Becca" thought i would want it back and asked her to give it to me. I was totallly shocked and had no idea even what to say. Cait broke it off right then and there. I need to find some way to make it up to her. She is the love of my life and i totally regret what i did but she won't even talk to me which is really awkward since i am at her house all the time since her brothers are my best friends and her dad is my football coach. How can i get her back?
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You really need to just call her or go to her house and talk to her about what happened.
Stress the fact you LOVE her and that you NEVER ment to hurt her and am SORRY!!!!
Just tell her how it went down. Start from the beging.
"When you said you wouldn't go to the party w/ me i was angry but i got over it before i left for the party. At this party i got drunk and i know it was a really bad idea to drink but it did. After the fact that i was drunk i fooled around w/ the girl that you met, becca. I have no feelings for her at all. It was a mistake and i am really sorry. I love you and would never want to hurt you. I am really sorry."
She probly won't forgive you right away but if she really loves you and you mean EVERY SINGLE WORD you say like sorry, and i love you. She will forgive you. And don't drink(to the point of drunkeness) agian because it will most likly lead to sleeping w/ another girl again and you don't want that to happen agian do you?
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