ok. im a bit of a different guy. i have some internal issues going, and i dont know whehter to love or not. i want to be with someone, but ti dont want to put a girl in a bad situiation. like pregnancy. i dont want to have sex, but you never know. so...i really tear myself over this...its sometimes my main nervous breakdown/depression stage problem. what to do? im not very social...and i havenvld, so i cant read into social situations...
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? BitsandPieces answered Thursday August 9 2007, 8:38 pm: Not knowing you, your age or pretty much anything about your background, I will have limited advice. However, this is the kind of general information that anyone can benefit from following. 1. Know that everyone including you, has "issues" and don't let that discourage you from being involved in society. 2. Given a choice to love or not, choose to love. 3. Love is about giving, not taking, so practice being a giver...incidentally, you will find more happiness in giving AND find yourself receiving more from those around you once you know how to give to others freely. 4. If you suffer from depression, it only means you are human. If it is chronic, meaning it won't go away on its own, then get help from a doctor and or counselor. It is nothing to be ashamed of. 5. None of us knows the future or can avoid risks without avoiding life altogether. Life and anything worth while has risks and prices involved. Work to become who you want to be and let the rest go. Remember this quote, "Life is a journey, Not a destination." [ BitsandPieces's advice column | Ask BitsandPieces A Question ]
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