im 14 and my bf is almost 16 weve been together for about 6 months i like him a lot and he's been pushing me to do more like touch his penis and give him a blowjob im not sure if i want to do that yet and im nervous if i do that hell want to have sex i like him a lot but im not sure if im ready yet what should i do?
-First point if you DO have sexual intercourse with this boy it is AGAINST the law ok? and he will get done for it and be put into prison
You obviously are not ready.If you were you wouldnt have the doubts..do you really "love" him is it the same love your parents have/had ??
YOU SHOULD:
Tell him you arent ready..there are so many risks you could sexual transmitted diseases, get pregnant as well and if he dosnt accept this..then he obviously isnt the person you thought he was.Even if you were ready you are underage.You have your whole life ahead of you for all of this and you want it to be special ..you love him ok but rethink where the realationship will go...... im not saying it wont work out but what if he dosnt accept your choice and that your not ready. he SHOUD NOOOT allow any pressure or persuading..
Just tell him you are not ready for that yet
Me personally would dump him if he pressurised me or pushed me , its obviously not the person i fell in love with
boys get very hormonal and it is natural to think like this and is he wanting lust dirty sex or passionate i love you sex?
theres a difference
tell him
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